The Other Woman
Tuesday, October 13, 2009
, Posted by IDKShit at 20:17
So you blink and all of a sudden find yourself in a relationship. Suddenly you feel pressured to somehow juggle your new lady and the woman you have some type of platonic connection with. You may think that both females can co-exist but in all actuality you and I know that could never happen.
First thing you gotta come to realize is that:
No one, male or female wants to share their significant other with someone that shares the same chromosome make up as themselves.
Especially when it comes to women, because when it comes to them in thinking about being with someone forever, they are thinking about more than the sexual connection.
Women look for that companion they can take that journey with. So once you bring another woman in the picture and you tell her you have no interest sexually in this woman, you raise questions in your woman. She starts to feel a void in you're relationship because you have some connection with a woman that you may not have with her.
I'm sure most woman will say they don't mind their spouse having a female friend (which they shouldn't) but are they truly willing to share their man?
Here's some tips to ease your females into their unnatural relationship.
- Don't force it, this can actually make it worst and eventually you'll most likely lose one of them if not both
- Make it known that one asked for the other specifically for invites to places, it shows that someone is reaching out to the other
- Never spend time alone with the friend, its always raises unneeded thoughts
- If you and your "Friend" had any type of relationship more than friends never bring it up ever, actually you might as well dead that because this definitely is not going to work
This is what both women are thinking when this situation happens.
u must already know that im in this freakin sitaution right now... =( im the other woman..smh.
Lol yeah I think everyone is in a situation like that one way or another.